Radically new patterns of personal relationships and general life circumstances do occasionally disrupt things, but these instances are exceedingly rare, and they're often tamed and even counteracted by a kind of existential gravity that inexorably pulls our lives back into what comes increasingly to seem like a predetermined shape...
Can you grasp what it would be like to understand your life's trajectory in terms of meaning, in the same way that you find meaning in music, literature, films, and so on - and to refer the resulting truths and patterns to the influence of a deep aspect of yourself that's guiding you through life and creating exactly the circumstances that are vitally necessary for you to encounter, experience, know, and respond to?
Equally to the point, can you grasp what it would be like to look around and realize that everybody else is similarly engaged?
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